No longer Silent

I will be the first to admit that I am no Janet Jackson, and I don't want to be. I just want to be me, I'm 5'6, a size 22 with big boobs and I'm ok with that.

Hollywood has their ideal woman and man, and if we all admit it so do we. Is that Ok? Different things are acceptable to different people. You know the old saying opposites attract, it's true. But being opposites and being attracted to each other doesn't save us from fools that have been around for a long time and will always be around, although I hate to say it.
My question is why are we silent when we see the judging going on? Why are we silent about what we feel and who we feel it for?

Who cares if the person you fall for is 5 years younger or 20 years older? Who cares if they are a different race or of the same sex?

Why does society judge? Why do we let the judging control us?

But the most important question that we should be asking ourselves is WHY DO WE STAY SILENT?????

The Past

I just talked to an old friend that I haven't seen in years. She's a great person and I'm happy that she's back in town. It made me think about the past.

Yes I said it, THE PAST, you know that thing we always try to put behind us and forget about. Past occasions, past loves, past mistakes. We all have one, there is no fighting it.

What I'm focused on right now are past regrets. The boy I never asked out, the one I never got to kiss. The games I never saw and the things I never did. And for those of you that know me, get that smile off your face, there are things that I haven't done. LOL

So I have a Challenge of sorts for you all. It involves taking a risk (yes I said it) and facing the past. Find that boy or girl that you never got to kiss and look them up. Maybe you get that long past due kiss, maybe you don't. You could renew an old friendship?

But you will be taking a chance and that is what this is all about. And think about it, it leaves you with one less past regret.

I'm willing to face my past. ARE YOU??????

how to set things right

When you hurt someone, how can you make it better, if that person doesn't talk to you.I'm not talking physical hurt, I mean emotional. What do you do when I'm sorry isn't enough. Cher sang "If i could Turn Back Time" I find myself wishing the same.

Turning back time isn't the answer, facing it is.